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"...moving back and forth between my roles as Domme and Mom has allowed me to see how they relate to and inform one another. While life with 2 kids is like working an understaffed party where no slaves want to interact with each other, I now see how my kinky past has prepared me for [...]

For this year's National Orgasm Day, come (haha) along with us as we breakdown 12 (!) types of orgasms, how to achieve them, their benefits, their complications and what sex toys can help you experience them.

Celebrate National Orgasm Day with a guide to 12 orgasm types—how to achieve them, their benefits, and the best toys to elevate your pleasure.

In the Kink Community, we have a different kind of daddy to celebrate this Father's Day; the kind of daddy you're not related to. I'm talking about kinky Daddies. The Leather Daddy, Butch Daddy, Daddy Dom, and the Femme Daddy. What does it take to earn the title "Daddy" in the dungeon or the bedroom? [...]

This Mens' Health Month let's shine a light on an often overlooked part of the XY body type - the Balls. I'm talking about Testicles, aka Nuts, Cojones, Bollocks, the ole Family Jewels. That's right, Cock, you can take a back seat on this one. For once, we're taking a deep dive into your very [...]

"International Whores' Day gives us the perfect excuse to reflect on how badass sex workers are (we've got historical receipts!) and reminds us how the sustained issues and organizing efforts of sex-workers-past help frame the fight ahead towards D-E-C-R-I-M. To say, the past is present y'all."**June 2nd is here. Happy International Whores' Day! A day [...]

"I don't necessarily believe that any one thing can or will "cure" depression; it is almost always a combination of therapy, medication, self work, journaling, community support, and yes, sex toys, that drag me out of the depths of depression."**Content warning: depression, anxiety, Post Traumatic Stress Disorder/PTSD, sexual assaultWhen I was in my second year [...]

There are a lot of societal misconceptions about neurodivergent people and how their brains work, so of course there are misconceptions about personal topics like sex and kink. Some might be thinking neurotypes don't even play a role in sex. Let's talk about it.** What is neurodivergence?Neurodivergence is an umbrella term to describe differences in cognitive functioning, most often associated with Autism [...]

May is Mental Health Awareness Month, and this installment of Ask a Dominatrix focuses on a relevant topic everyone struggles with mentally from time to time: imposter syndrome. In this blog, Robin Jennings AKA Mistress Mary shares her experience with imposter syndrome and how to successfully fight it.**May is Mental Health Awareness Month so this [...]

Are you ready to make a lasting impact on your partner(s) or playmate(s)? We've got you covered with all the expert tips on how to safely and confidently explore Impact Play! Jamie Joy, certified sex educator and kink enthusiast, is here to guide you through the basics of spanking, floggers, paddles, and canes.**Before we jump [...]

In this blog, sex coach and educator Jocelyn Silva, MSW, shares her experience with her self-pleasure journey, providing personal stories and tips on overcoming the shame we can sometimes feel about pleasure and masturbation so we can embrace our sexual essence and lead pleasure-filled lives.**Getting Over Masturbation ShameListen, I know a thing or two about masturbation shame [...]

March is Women's History Month and March 8th is International Women's Day! Along with highlighting non-binary and woman-led brands, we also wanted to draw attention to the impact these women and brands have had on the pleasure products industry in general, as well as the individual work they're all doing to make this world a better [...]