Happy Masturbation May! 

• The best sex toys are the ones that work for your body. Pleasure isn’t one-size-fits-all, and exploration is part of the fun.

• Masturbation is wellness. Solo pleasure can support relaxation, stress relief, body confidence, and sexual self-awareness.

• Great toys enhance sensation, not performance. Whether you love vibration, warmth, pressure, or teasing stimulation, the right toy helps you tune into what feels good.

Self-pleasure is one of the most universal human experiences — and one of the most misunderstood. No matter your gender, sexuality, relationship status, or body type, you deserve access to pleasure, curiosity, and the tools that help you feel good.

Masturbation can support stress relief, body awareness, sleep, mood, and confidence. According to Planned Parenthood, masturbation is a healthy, normal part of sexuality and a safe way to learn what feels pleasurable for your body. And honestly? We love to see it.

This month is all about celebrating pleasure without shame. Whether you’re exploring solo for the first time or refreshing your toy drawer with some top sex toys, these products are designed to help you connect with your body on your own terms.

Why Masturbation Matters

For something so common, masturbation still carries a surprising amount of stigma. But self-pleasure isn’t selfish, embarrassing, or “extra.” It’s a normal part of human sexuality.

Masturbation can help you:

• Learn what kinds of touch you enjoy

• Build confidence communicating with partners

• Reduce stress and tension

• Explore pleasure without pressure

• Connect with your body in a positive way

And importantly: there’s no “correct” way to masturbate.

Some people love powerful vibration. Others prefer softer sensations, edging, fantasy, pressure, or external touch. Some people orgasm regularly. Others simply enjoy the process.

Pleasure doesn’t need a goal to be valuable.

Pleasure Is for Every Body

The best sex toys aren’t reserved for one gender, anatomy, or identity.

Vibrators, stimulation gels, and massagers can be enjoyed by:

• Penis havers

• Vulva havers

• Trans and nonbinary folks

• Couples and solo players

• Beginners and experienced toy lovers alike

A good toy meets your body where it is. It supports exploration instead of expectation.

That’s why body-positive, sex-positive pleasure matters: everybody deserves access to tools that feel affirming, accessible, and fun.

Our Picks for Masturbation May

Magic Wand Original

The legendary wand that became the gold standard for powerful vibration.

Why People Love It

• Deep, rumbly vibration

• Powerful 6,000 RPM motor

• Large flexible head for broad stimulation

• Great for full-body massage and intimate play

• Plug-in power for consistent intensity

The Magic Wand Original has earned its reputation as one of the best sex toys of all time. Originally marketed as a body massager, this iconic wand delivers intense, deep vibrations that can be used almost anywhere on the body. Some people use it externally on the clitoris or vulva, while others enjoy it along the shaft, frenulum, perineum, nipples, thighs, or tense muscles. Its broad head makes it especially versatile for exploring sensation without needing pinpoint precision.

Imagine…

You’re stretched out after a long day, giving yourself permission to slow down. The broad vibration melts tension from your shoulders before drifting lower, turning relaxation into anticipation. You experiment with pressure and placement, discovering how different parts of your body respond until pleasure builds naturally, steadily, and completely on your terms.

Luv Plus Rechargeable Mini Vibe

Tiny toy. Big energy.

Why People Love It

• Compact and travel-friendly

• 10 vibration patterns

• Waterproof design

• Soft silicone exterior

• Great for pinpoint external stimulation

The Luv Plus Rechargeable Mini Vibe packs surprisingly strong vibration into a lightweight, beginner-friendly design. Its curved tip makes it easy to target sensitive areas like the clitoris, nipples, frenulum, or other external sweet spots with precision. Because it’s compact and unintimidating, it’s also a great entry point for anyone exploring vibration for the first time.

Imagine…

Maybe you’re under the blankets with headphones on, fully in your own world. The vibe’s focused stimulation lets you experiment slowly, teasing sensitive areas before settling into a rhythm that feels just right. It’s playful, portable, and easy to keep within reach whenever the mood strikes.

Awaken Clitoral Gel

A little extra sensation can go a long way.

Why People Love It

• Designed to heighten sensitivity

• Vegan and glycerin-free

• pH balanced

• Safe with toys and latex

• Great for solo or partnered play

Awaken Clitoral Gel is designed to increase sensation and encourage blood flow with a blend of stimulating botanicals. While not technically a toy, it’s an excellent addition to a pleasure routine — especially for people with clitorises who want more warmth, tingling, or heightened awareness during touch or toy play.

Imagine…

You start slowly, applying just a small amount and waiting for the sensation to bloom. Touch feels more noticeable, more layered, and suddenly even the lightest stimulation has your full attention. Paired with your favorite toy or your own hands, it turns anticipation into part of the experience.

How to Find the Best Sex Toys for You

When choosing from the top sex toys on the market, focus less on hype and more on how you like to experience pleasure.

Ask yourself:

• Do I prefer broad stimulation or pinpoint pressure?

• Do I enjoy intense vibration or gradual build-up?

• Do I want something discreet and portable?

• Am I looking for solo play, partnered play, or both?

There’s no universal “best” toy — just the best toy for your body right now.

Tips for Better Solo Play

Slow Down

Pleasure doesn’t need to be rushed. Experiment with teasing, edging, or exploring different parts of your body.

Use Lube

A good water-based lubricant can make toys more comfortable and sensations smoother. Read more about lube in our blog. 

Change the Environment

Lighting, music, blankets, privacy — atmosphere matters more than people think.

Let Go of Performance

Orgasm is great, but exploration matters too. Enjoying sensation without pressure can make pleasure feel more natural and accessible.

Masturbation Month Is Just A Reminder

Masturbation Month is a reminder that pleasure belongs to everyone.

Whether you’re reaching for the legendary Magic Wand Original, experimenting with the Luv Plus Mini Vibe, or adding Awaken Gel to your routine, the goal isn’t perfection or performance.

It’s connection. To your body. To sensation. To curiosity. To feeling good without apology. And honestly? That deserves to be celebrated year-round.

Frequently Asked Questions

Is masturbation healthy?

Yes. Planned Parenthood and other sexual health organizations recognize masturbation as a normal and healthy part of sexuality.

What are the best sex toys for beginners?

Smaller external toys like mini vibrators or broad wand massagers are often beginner-friendly because they’re versatile and easy to control.

Can anyone use vibrators?

Absolutely. Vibrators can be enjoyed by people of all genders and body types.

Do I need lube with sex toys?

Not always, but water-based lubricant can improve comfort and enhance sensation, especially with silicone toys.