The Best Anal Sex Toys for Beginners
- Discover how to explore anal play with confidence and pleasure.
- Learn about the best anal sex toys for beginners, including how and why to use them.
- Featuring LELO Smart Wand 2 - Medium, b-Vibe Snug Plug, and Sliquid Sassy.
It?s that time of year when it's all about the rear. And yes, we've got all the gear. "Butt" more importantly, we've got the guidance, support, and products to help beginners explore anal sex toys in ways that are safe, pleasurable, and confidence-building. Whether you're curious about adding new sensations to solo sessions, opening up backdoor play with a partner, or diving headfirst into the world of prostate stimulation, this guide is for you.
Why Try Anal Play? Let's Talk Backdoor Benefits
Anal play isn't just about adding something "naughty" to your sex life - it can be deeply satisfying, sensually rich, and even health-beneficial (hello, prostate massage). Whether you're looking to increase your pleasure, deepen connection with a partner, or simply explore new sensations, your butt has a lot to offer.
Here's why folks love it:
- Nerve endings galore: The anus is packed with sensitive nerve endings that can make anal touch intensely pleasurable for people of all genders.
- Prostate stimulation: For those with prostates, direct or indirect stimulation can result in powerful, full-body orgasms.
- Increased intimacy: Engaging in anal play often requires a level of communication and trust that can strengthen relationships.
- It's taboo - in a good way: Sometimes breaking the "rules" can be exciting in and of itself.
Of course, like any new sexual activity, it's best to be informed, prepared, and equipped with the right toys. That's where we come in.
Anal Play 101: Safety Tips for Beginners
Before we jump into the best beginner anal toys, let's cover the basics. Here's what every beginner needs to know:
1. Use Lube. Then Use More Lube.
Why we love it:
- Water-based and glycerin-free (great for sensitive folks)
- Thick formula that stays where you put it
- Safe to use with silicone and latex toys or condoms
2. Go Slow - Like, Sloth Slow
Anal play is not the time to rush. Whether it's your finger or your first toy, start small and increase pressure, depth, and size gradually. Breathe, listen to your body, and communicate with your partner (or yourself!).
3. Choose Body-Safe, Flared-Base Toys
The golden rule of anal toys? Always use a toy with a flared base. The anus can "suck up" items due to its internal muscle contractions, and you don't want to make an awkward ER trip. All toys we recommend in this guide are designed with safety (and satisfaction) in mind.
The Best Anal Sex Toys for Beginners
So, which toys make the best anal play companions for newbies? We've curated a list of toys that are beginner-friendly, body-safe, and (most importantly) fun as hell.
1. LELO Smart Wand 2 - Medium - Build Your Backdoor Confidence with External Vibration
Surprised to see a wand massager on a list of anal sex toys for beginners? Don?t be. Exploring anal pleasure doesn't have to start with penetration. External stimulation - like using a powerful wand around the anal opening - can help you warm up, build trust with your body, and discover just how good things can feel.
Why it?s perfect for beginners:
- Offers deep, rumbly external vibrations that help relax the muscles
- Great for warming up the area before penetration
- No pressure to insert?just enjoy surface-level pleasure
- Fully waterproof and rechargeable, with 10 versatile settings
The LELO Smart Wand 2 - Medium is an elegant, spa-worthy toy that bridges sensual massage and anal exploration. Whether you're curious about prostate massage or just want to ease tension and introduce vibration, this toy lets you flirt with anal pleasure before diving deeper.
Pro Tip: Try pairing this with a warm shower or bath and some gentle circular strokes around the anus - no penetration necessary. It's a great way to build arousal without the nerves.
2. Booty Call Booty Glider - Vibrating Bullet for Double the Backdoor Fun
Looking for a first-time anal toy that's equal parts approachable and exciting? The Booty Call Booty Glider is a silky-smooth, flexible silicone plug equipped with its own removable bullet. With multi-speed vibrations and a perfectly petite size, this vibrator offers an ideal introduction to anal stimulation without overwhelm.
Why it's perfect for first-timers:
- Soft and flexible silicone plugs
- Removable bullet with multi-speed vibration
- Flared bases for safety and comfort
- Rounded tips make insertion easy and unintimidating
This set is a brilliant choice for solo explorers or couples who want to experiment together. With a silicone probe and a removable bullet, you can even play around with alternating sensations or enjoy one part while a partner uses the other.
Pro tip: Start without the bullets if you're nervous, then add vibration when you're ready to take things up a notch. Pair with a lube like Sliquid Sassy and go slow - anal play is a journey, not a race.
3. b-Vibe Snug Plug - A Weighted Plug That Teaches Your Body to Love Anal
Why it stands out:
- Tapered tip for easy insertion
- Available in multiple beginner-friendly sizes
- Weighted interior adds pleasurable pressure and fullness
- Designed for long wear and walking-around fun
The Snug Plug 2 is ideal for beginners. Want to challenge yourself? Try sizing up as you get more comfortable.
Pro tip: Try wearing it around the house for 20-30 minutes and feel how your body adjusts to the sensation over time. It's like weight training - for your butt!
Anal Play for All Bodies: Gender-Inclusive Pleasure
Let's be clear: anal play is for everyone. Whether you're a vulva owner, penis owner, nonbinary babe, or exploring your gender expression, your booty is a pleasure zone. Here's how anal toys can enhance different types of play:
Prostate owners: Use toys like the Snug Plug 2 or a curved beginner plug for p-spot stimulation.
Vulva owners: Anal toys can increase pressure in the vaginal canal during penetration, enhancing G-spot orgasms.
Extra Tips for Trans and Nonbinary folks: Play with anal toys as part of exploring sensation, gender expression, or just because it feels good!
As always, choose toys that align with your comfort, curiosity, and physical needs.
Solo vs. Partnered Anal Play: Tips for Both
Exploring Solo
Solo anal play is a fantastic way to get to know your body. No pressure, no expectations - just you, lube, and a well-chosen toy.
Solo Anal Play Tips:
- Set the mood: clean space, soft lighting, a good playlist
- Start externally: massage around the anus with fingers or a warm toy
- Breathe deeply and don't force anything - relaxation is key
Exploring With a Partner
Anal play with a partner is all about trust, communication, and mutual pleasure.
Anal Sex Tips:
- Talk about boundaries and safe words before you begin
- Let the receiver guide the pace and pressure
- Use lots of lube, check in frequently, and keep things playful
Still nervous? Try watching an educational video or attend one of our Pleasure Ed Workshops on anal play. We promise, you're not the only one with questions.
Building Your Anal Toy Collection: Where to Go Next
Once you've dipped your toes - er, toys - into the backdoor pool, you might be curious what else is out there. Here's a taste of what's next:
- Plug sets: Start small and size up as your comfort grows.
- Graduated anal bead sets: Great for learning to relax and enjoy progressive penetration.
- Prostate massagers: Designed specifically for p-spot stimulation.
- Vibrating plugs: Add a little buzz to your butt (or a lot, if that's your vibe).
- Strap-on compatible dildos: Perfect for pegging play or gender-affirming expression.
And of course, we've got everything you need in our full Anal Sex Toys collection.
You Deserve to Explore Anal Pleasure
Exploring anal play doesn't have to be scary, awkward, or painful. With the right toys, the right mindset, and the right lube (always lube), you can unlock a whole new realm of sensual delight.
No matter your experience level or anatomy, The Pleasure Chest is here to support your journey with inclusive education, quality products, and a whole lot of heart.
So go ahead - treat your butt to a little love. You deserve it.
Products Featured in This Blog:
- LELO Smart Wand 2 ? Medium - Elegant, rumbly, and great for easing into anal play with external vibes
- Booty Call Booty Gliders - Vibrating Dual Bullets for Double the Backdoor Fun
- b-Vibe Snug Plug 2 - Weighted plug designed for comfort and gradual play
- Sliquid Sassy - The ultimate thick anal lube
Learn More:
- What do I need to know about anal sex? - Planned Parenthood
- What happens during anal sex? - Go Ask Alice (Columbia University)
Written by The Pleasure Chest Education Team
Sex-positive. Gender-inclusive. Booty-curious.
