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Dom for Nervous Tops

Ready to take control but don't know where to start? We've got everything you need to assert your dominance and embrace your inner top.
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    The New Topping

    $14.95
    $14.95
    There is no doubt that reading The New Topping Book is a great place to start exploring and understanding your own dominance. Learn about how to embrace your role as a top, keep yourself and your partners safe, and get some pointers on your way to having fun.
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    Birdlocked Silicone Chastity Device

    $169.95
    $169.95
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    Keep your package under lock and key, with this lightweight alternative to bulkier chastity devices. Made of soft, flexible, surgical silicone, the Birdlocked won't pinch or break, and it has a special underside locking system, to make escape extra difficult. It can also be cut off with scissors, in the event of an emergency. (But it'd better be a real emergency, buddy!)
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    Pleasure Chest Silk Entangle Ties

    $14.95
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    Silky smooth ribbon ties indulge the senses with beauty and bondage. Use to tie hands or feet together or to a secure post for erotic play.
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    Pleasure Feathers

    $7.95
    $7.95
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    Tickle, tease, and please with ease thanks to this convenient tuft of feathers with a wrist loop.
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    Pleasure Tape

    $9.95
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    This non-adhesive tape won't stick to your bottom's skin or hair, but it will cling tightly to itself. Wrap it around their wrists or ankles a few times to create cuffs, or wrap it around their eyes or mouth to create a blindfold or gag. Easy to use regardless of your experience level!
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    Jimmyjane Afterglow Massage Candle

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    Rest assured, these low temperature soy-based candles melt into a warm massage oil, not a hot wax, so you can use these to ease into temperature play, or simply indulge in a warm sensual massage.
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    Yes, Sir

    $15.95
    $15.95
    The lucky women in "Yes, Sir" give up control to irresistibly powerful men who understand that dominance is about exulting in power that is freely yielded. Bound, gagged, or spanked or controlled with just a glance, these erotic adventurers experience the breathtaking thrills of sexual submission.
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    Yes, Ma'am

    $15.95
    $15.95
    What makes a man cower before a powerful woman? Turning the tables on rigid gender roles, these stories detail the adventure of men who revel in submission to stern mistresses who recognize their deepest desires. Whether bound and punished, ordered into a threesome, or put on full, naked display, these men receive the treatment they truly crave.
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    Urban Tantra

    $17.99
    $17.99
    With a juicy mix of erotic how-to and pleasure-centered spiritual wisdom, acclaimed sex educator Barbara Carrellas radically updates the ancient practice of Tantra for modern sexual explorers desiring to push past their edge in search of the great cosmic orgasm. Features more than 100 easy-to-follow techniques for expanded orgasmic states!
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    Under the Bed Restraint System

    $67.95
    $67.95
    Transform any bed for bondage play with this safe and easy kit! Restraint straps quickly fit beneath any size mattress or frame without hooks. Restrain your partner's arms or legs from the sides or the top and bottom of the bed. Portable and travel-sized.
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    Ultimate Blindfold

    $54.95
    $54.95
    Putting a blindfold on your bottom turns up the anticipation and helps everyone get in their headspace. It also allows a nervous top to get their footing away from their bottom's eyes. The Ultimate Blindfold is a great option that provides a lot of coverage and has additional padding for comfort.
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    This DVD combines educational content, real couples talking about their own experiences, and hot scenes so you can see the action. This DVD is great for couples who are exploring kink together!
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    The Sexually Dominant Woman

    $11.95
    $11.95
    This friendly, non-threatening book is the perfect starting point for the woman who has fantasized about erotic power play, explaining the fundamentals of bondage, sensation and control games.
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    Awaken Your Senses Kit

    $35.00
    $35.00

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    Don't know where to start? We've planned your light bondage and sensation play date for you, and packaged it in a discreet tin. This kit gives you everything you need to take your bottom through a range of sensual sensations, including a blindfold, silk binding ties, a massage candle, a disposable pinwheel, and a feather tickler.
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    The Loving Dominant

    $16.95
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    In addition to the sage advice and good humor that made the first edition a classic, the authors tackle some of the issues that have come up for tops in the last six years: on-line domination, the challenges and rewards of lifestyle relationships, ensuring our own and our partners' safety' and more.
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    Tantus Fantasy Gag

    $49.95
    $49.95
    This is the gag for those who want a mouthful of fantasy. Shaped like a realistic penis head, the Tantus Fantasy Gag is made of 100% odorless, taste-free, and hypoallergenic silicone. The adjustable leather strap is removable so that the mouthpiece is easy to sanitize between uses.
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    Sports Cuffs

    $24.95
    $24.95
    If bedroom bondage is your favorite sport, gear up with these comfortable and durable restraints. Made of high quality neoprene and easy-on, easy-off Velcro closures, Sports Cuffs are a great alternative to ropes and chains. Handy quick clips allow you to change positions in just one step.
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    Sea Grape Leather and Suede Slapper

    $26.95
    $26.95
    This slapper is small enough to fit in your pocket, and easy to control. The combination of leather and suede create a subtle mixture of sensations, and the small size of the slapper makes it ideal for nervous tops who want to play with impact, but maybe aren't ready for a larger implement.
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    Red Heart Crop

    $39.95
    $39.95
    Put some heart into your next spanking! This wicked crop comes topped with a red leather heart, with embedded metal studs. Leave the kind of bruises that show how much you really care.
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    Mini Crop

    $27.95
    $27.95
    This small and unassuming crop has a nice broad tip that can pack some sting for impact that targets small areas of the body. It's easy to wield and creates a nice range of sensations. Perfect for a new top.
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    Let's Play Doctor

    $19.95
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    Sometimes the hardest part of getting into your role is simply getting started. Let's Play Doctor is a fun and un-intimidating board game that suggests different role play scenarios and offers some clever and lighthearted prompts in case you get stuck. An excellent way to break the ice and try your hand at playing different roles!
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    Kinky Sex Scratchers

    $9.95
    $9.95
    120 games, 120 chances to turn your wildest sex fantasies into a reality scratch-and-win... then the fun really begins!
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    Are you ready for a spanking? This lightweight wooden ruler is an ideal impact toy for beginners and makes a great role play toy accessory too!
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    Cosmo's Kinky Sex Games

    $9.95
    $9.95
    Take a walk on the wild side! This set comes with ten different games to get you talking dirty, tying each other up, acting out fantasies, and much more. Try a different one every night, or spend a long weekend learning what makes you tick.
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    Bondage Seductions

    $22.95
    $22.95
    Are you game for some bondage? Find out with Bondage Seductions, the perfect game for the kink curious. This kit allows you to explore the world of restraints, dominance, pleasurable pain and sweet submission. Comes with 36 bondage seduction cards, two silky ties, dice, a blindfold and rubber whip.
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    This book will take you through the basics of BDSM, including the vocabulary, pop culture references, understanding types of participants, and the basics of kink culture. You'll quickly learn about both Eastern and Western styles of knot-tying, and receive step-by-step guidance and full color photos so tying knots becomes quick, easy, and fun.

Sex Toy Primer

Want to sex it up but don't know where to start? Get your feet (and other parts) wet with these great starter toys.

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Travel Friendly

Fly under the radar with these travel-friendly toys that are small and discreet for orgasms on-the-go.

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High Tech Toys

We may not have hover boards or flying cars, but these high tech toys will open you up to a brave new world of pleasure.

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